Daniel A. Bochner, Ph.D.

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  • Articles for IndividualsClick to open the Articles for Individuals menu
    • Section 1 - Getting You Working Well
    • You Need to Know You're Great
    • Changing Our Past Adaptation For Our Future
    • Balance and the Motivation to Change
    • Undoing the Troubled-Past/Troubled-Future Dilemma
    • The Importance of Growth
    • Section 2 - Development: Troubleshooting for Wear and Tear
    • Low Self-Esteem and Its Connection to Cognitive Dissonance
    • How Identical Circumstances Lead to Opposite Personalities
    • Creating Strength From Weakness
    • Loss and Hope
    • Section 3 - Living: Your Everyday Maintenance in Interaction
    • Criticism and Us
    • Balancing the Animal and the Spiritual
    • The Power and Control Addiction
    • Understanding Boundaries
    • The Failure of Empathy in Everyday Life
    • The Crippling Effects of Worry
    • Section 4 - Tools: Caring for You and Your Communication with Others
    • Breathe!!!
    • Be Your Own Best Friend
    • The "Big What If..." - Stress Management for Tough Times
    • The Writing Cure (for Sleep or Trauma)
    • Assertiveness: The 30% Solution
  • Articles for CouplesClick to open the Articles for Couples menu
    • Section 5 - Can Two Parts Beat as One?
    • Women and Men
    • The Three A's of Relationship: Acceptance, Accommodation, and Assertiveness
    • Connection and Independence
    • Understanding Personality Styles in Couples
    • Section 6 - New Cars, Fast Cars, Backfires and Crashes
    • The Dating Fantasy
    • Sex is Not a Drive, It's Just Real Important
    • Affairs and Divorce
    • Section 7 - Tools for Making Yourself Fully Understood
    • Communication From the Heart
    • Key Signals - The Key to Jump Starting Change in Relationships
    • "I" Statements
  • Articles for FamiliesClick to open the Articles for Families menu
    • Section 8 - Family Relations
    • From Id to Family System or The Id is the Engine in the Great Life Machine
    • Emotional Space
    • Section 9 - Parenting
    • The Essentials of Parenting
    • Who's to Say What's "Right" in Parenting?
    • You Don't Know How Much They Love You
    • Section 10 - Building Good Kids
    • From Materialism to Integrity: The Building Blocks of the Healthy Human Structure
    • Freedom and Responsibility
    • Bullying
    • "Be A Man"
    • It Must be Hard to be a Girl
    • Section 11 - Using Discipline
    • Leaks in Discipline
    • The "Satisfaction Meter"
    • It's So Hard to be Bad: So For Heaven's Sake, Just Be Good!
    • Good Discipline for Acting Out Kids
    • Sample Reward System
  • Articles on Psychological DiagnosesClick to open the Articles on Psychological Diagnoses menu
    • Section 12 - Major Diagnoses
    • Depression
    • Anxiety
    • Bipolar Disorder
    • Psychotic Disorders
    • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
    • Attention Deficit (Hyperactivity) Disorder (ADD or ADHD)
    • Section 13 - Personality Diagnoses
    • Histrionic Personality Disorder
    • Passive-Aggressive Personality Disorder
    • Major Diagnoses
    • Narcissistic Personality Disorder
    • Borderline Personality Disorder
    • Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder
    • The Other Personality Disorders
    • Section 14 - Addictions
    • Addiction: A Relationship to Remember
    • Codependency

Articles on Psychological Diagnoses

 

Within the Great Life Machine, individual parts – individual people - are built and then break down in very specific ways. The particular fit of any one individual within the Great Life Machine, their genetics combined with their family dynamics and family circumstances, determines how they were built and how they break down. Correct diagnosis, that is the ability to identify how individual parts have broken and how they were built, is extremely helpful in getting them working again. It is frequently the case that simply getting a better understanding of how individual parts were built and how they break down initiates the repair of those parts, even with very little mechanical help (psycho-therapeutic intervention or medicine). Typically, when a person or a family comes to a therapist, the first thing the therapist attempts to do, and the very first thing the client(s) wants to know, is: "what is wrong?" In Diagnoses and their Interpersonal Components, the "what is wrong?" aspect of treatment will be addressed.

In the first subsection, Major Diagnoses, how and why people break down will be discussed. Individuals tend to break down in ways that are familiar to us all, such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and post-traumatic stress disorder. Each of these diagnoses has a specific cause within the individual system of emotions that is common to us all (see article, From Id to Family System). The causes of these Major Diagnoses will be discussed in each article, and solutions or guidelines for intervention will be offered.

The second subsection, Personality Diagnoses, involves the unique way in which each of us is built, given our circumstances and experiences. Personality develops from a core of basic human characteristics into specific and detailed traits. The purpose of these traits, or personality attributes, is to balance intense and threatening emotions by maintaining a certain bearing or a certain type of role-relation to others. Through the developmental process in our families, we become a very particular type of person based on our particular family. Unfortunately, many individuals get stuck with the style they have developed when balancing within their own family, even though the world at large offers endless possibilities for interaction. These personality types are outlined within this section, and to the extent that each is maladaptive given the limitless possibilities of the world, directions toward new and better functioning will be shown.

The final subsection, Addictions, focuses on the extreme behavior that develops when people seek to artificially balance emotions through a relationship with a substance. Codependency, or the way certain people seem to balance themselves by being with someone who is addicted, will also be covered. These two articles present a basic outline for understanding the addictive process and why it is so difficult to change.

Copyright 2010 Daniel A. Bochner, Ph.D.  All rights reserved.  Material provided on this web site is for educational and/or informational purposes only.  This web site does not offer either online services or medical advice.  No therapeutic relationship is established by use of this site.

322 Stephenson Avenue, Ste B
Savannah, GA 31405

ph: 912-352-2992
fax: 912-352-3447